Believe the child

Many parents always think child age is small, this also is no good, that also is no good, do not believe the child. Although the child is small have tremendous study and development latent capacity however, contemporary and scientific institute proved this. The parent that supports this kind of understanding can let go quite commonly the ground rears the child, say via regular meeting: "The child, you go! "Cheeper knows him through others to his view, want the parent to think he goes only, the child can produce self-confidence naturally. Additional, the parent believes even, every child has up heart. This one understanding is very important also, it can make the parent holds active state of mind when teaching the child, go supporting, encourage the child, one kind maintains from beginning to end in making the child develops a process in its thereby hopeful, up mood, be full of self-confidence.

Let go education

After the child grows commonly, movement, utterance had the development of certain level, self-awareness is budding. At this moment, the child often can show very intense independent consciousness and own desire, whats want him to come, although often overrate force, but the desire of " of myself of this kind of " reflects a child's exuberant vitality however, show a kind primitive, the need that seeks self-approval. We are common the infant should work when encountering parent block the way, they will be obdurate ground shout: "I was brought up! I was brought up! "Encounter this kind of situation, the parent does not depress the child, cannot say more: "You are no good! "And the knowledge of this kind of ego that should use an infant and desire, be good at guiding, give support, satisfy the requirement of " of their " myself. The CCTV was in 1995 " life space " one ever had reported 3 years old in the program cheeper alizarin red. She sees mom is pulling the land with mop, also grabbing should go procrastinating. Well-advised mother satisfied her requirement, let her procrastinate a few times, offer support the help, make she feels " of " our bank. This kind of sensation is very main, it is self-confident foundation. 1997, " life space " reported again alizarin red. At this moment, 5 years old alizarin red alizarin red the self-confidence that already showed height, thinking is active, have courage, have definite idea, lively and optimistic.

Additional, the child achieves progress in the activity, the parent should offer activity and the opportunity that behave ability and condition for the infant, let go let the child have all sorts of activities. The activity can promote the child's body and the development of all sorts of ability not only, and the joy that the generation that can make feels to environmental control and scores a success, enhance self-confidence thereby. If the parent always is the space that limits the child in stricture, or at every turn jumps over Zu Dai blister, whats do not let the child do, stripped the opportunity that the child establishs self-confident heart through the activity, will bring about child ability low, depend on, cowardly and self-abased.
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