Let a child " audit " of of adult talking thing
Capacity audience of Chang Gaopeng of middling of Home Fu Lei, they gather talk about literary art, consider character philosophic theory. At first, the little brother Fu Min that Fu Lei does not allow Fu Cong and him is attendant, more the look does not get them to interrupt. And dot, nature curiosity, always want to be squeezed in the project oneself between big philtrum. Adult does not let listen the more, kids listens presumably the more. Once, painter bang millet sojourns to Fu Jia, inside the study with Fu Lei appreciate hides a picture, be unavoidable one time to harangue between two people. Between conversation, fu Lei should the external world suddenly take a thing, open the door to see Fu Cong is taking Fu Min unexpectedly eavesdrop is gotten carried, fu Cong is this by rebuke of ground of father firm firm.
After this thing happening, mood for a long time of Fu Lei cannot calm. He reviews rebuke child to have a reason after all, at the same time the analysis refuses with the advantages and disadvantages that admits the child to participate in adult to talk. Consideration repeatedly, he decides to let a child listen to adult to discuss an issue, because can let child early experience enter a life so, make the child early intelligent. Then, wait for children in a way is a few growner, fu Lei allows Fu Cong and Fu Min from " eavesdrop is unripe " turn for formal " auditor " .
Fu Lei's friend is public figure prominent personage mostly, exalted bearing learns to raise. So Fu Cong from its childhood times " audit " in, acquired lots and lots of things that do not go to school in book.
Endowment discovers from inside the child's life
Still be when Fu Cong is very small, fu Lei discovered his musical talent. Of course this was to pass certain labyrinthian, is not " give the decisive word " .
Fu Lei has original opinion to teaching children. He thinks each person has his talent, cannot go against endowment and go. Fu Lei writes in the letter that gives Zhou Zongqi: "We inherently, the size of ability is differ, direction each different; May not of the person that grow to be versed in at manage grows Yu Wen history, vice versa; The choice is undeserved, regretful lifetime. The hobby is literary person may not has literary capacity really, be engaged in literary person may not has pair of literary passion really; The artist with truly successful reason, often relatively he is planted the scholar is especially little. Every this a variety of, all appropriate calmly, long-term introspection, eventually period with my strong points, abandon me place is short. If my at enthusiasm, since have deep love for,think, succeed necessarily, namely go astray of hard to avoid. " be based on such idea, still be when Fu Cong when 34 years old, fu Lei is in his puerile heart activity the flashy site that seeks his natural gift, begin to pave the way that builds life for Fu Cong.
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